to be fair...

[quietann]

I should say that the all-female gathering on Friday night, by all accounts, was small. (especially given how many of you fine people weren't invited!) It's just that at the party I went to on Saturday night, within about 10 minutes, I heard 4 or 5 different women talking about how much fun they'd had at the Friday night gathering. That got conflated to "almost everyone but me must have been there," which is obviously untrue.

As for having more, or more open, gatherings of this sort, I can't host at my place. And I do worry that *someone* will be left out and feel bad about it, because I know that most peoples' houses have only so much room, and sometimes one just forgets someone

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[juliansinger.livejournal.com]

That got conflated to "almost everyone but me must have been there," which is obviously untrue.

Depressional thinking's like that. (Dysthymic, whatever.) Am I being too obvious here? Is that not what it is? It just seemed so clear to me, from the way you wrote it. I can never identify my /own/ depressive misinterpretations so quickly, sadly.

[quietann.livejournal.com]

oh yes, sure that's part of what's going on :)

But I am actually doing *better* with stuff like this since I cut my meds, so what else can I say?

[juliansinger.livejournal.com]

*grin* That you're doing better, and that you're glad you're doing better.

Or something akin to that.