quietann

What you're finding is perfectly valid and natural. We've found that part of any successful relationship is having some alone time built in. With secondaries it's easy, since one tends to see them less frequently. With the primary relationship, keeping the one who seems to need less alone time from feeling rejected may well require a lot of talking it out and maybe putting some extra effort into focusing on them after your alone times. you might want to talk to roozle about alone time, since I think that she and I have gotten this to work pretty well.