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quietann ([personal profile] quietann) wrote2002-08-12 11:21 pm

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argh. What does one say when a person, once again, has demonstrated their inability to think of anyone but themselves?
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[personal profile] gingicat 2002-08-13 04:36 am (UTC)(link)
"Are you aware of how much this screws up my schedule?"

"I'm sorry, I have X, Y, and Z to deal with. I will help you when I can."

"Did you know that if you do this, person A will be hurt?"

And if they're persisting in not getting a clue:

"I'm sorry, but you are continually demonstrating that you think only of yourself. I won't be able to hang out with you until you fix this."

[identity profile] awfief.livejournal.com 2002-08-13 05:29 am (UTC)(link)
Goodbye. And no, I can't be friends with you.

That's what I have said in the past. Then again, I was in a time when I needed someone the most, and zie just wasn't there for me.

[identity profile] quietann.livejournal.com 2002-08-13 07:16 am (UTC)(link)
This isn't a situation that has anything to do with me. It just bugs the hell out of me is all. And then to find that _someone_ -- either my husband or the person who started it all -- removed my LJ post about it is just infuriating.

But it isn't any of my business, really. I just can't let it go. I just want to go to the offending person and shake her -- hard -- and tell her how much her version of reality is at odds with almost everyone else's.

[identity profile] kimberlogic.livejournal.com 2002-08-13 07:41 am (UTC)(link)
Someone removed your lj post to your own journal? That's really uncool.

*hugs*

Kimberly

[identity profile] dancingdeer.livejournal.com 2002-08-13 07:51 am (UTC)(link)
No, it was a response she made on someone elses' journal (the person in question). The original response was short and even fairly polite.
(the database at work is down, so I get to sorta fool around for a bit)

greatly troubled

[identity profile] quietann.livejournal.com 2002-08-13 07:57 am (UTC)(link)
I was trying to be as polite as possible, while letting the person in question know that I disagreed with her. Right now I am trying not to suffer a meltdown over the whole thing (there is more to it but definitely not anything I should say here.) Private email might be more appropriate. If I can get myself more composed, letting it all go would be the best thing, but I'm having a rough time with that right now.

Not Guilty

[identity profile] deguspice.livejournal.com 2002-08-13 12:20 pm (UTC)(link)
It wasn't me.