Done - and to everyone rather than just friends.

I have no understanding, at an emotional level, why gays marrying diminishes a straight person's marriage.

The Congressional Caucus for gays (a congressional caucus is a group of congresscritters interested in a specific issue) formed recently. The head, Barney Frank, himself gay, said that all we want to do is get married, have kids, and serve in the military; how much more conservative can you get?